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Charity Emeka's avatar

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Omo babe this is a true eye opener. Only matured ones will truly understand the content of this.

Most people just tend to escalate things just because they feel they are being expressive...if only they just know.

There are some issues wey go make u won ment but as u said, sitting back and rethinking with a clear mind and not blowing it out of proportion would make u handle things in a different way... People need to see this and react better. No be everytime person go dey shalaye naw.

Keep it up babe.

Wisdom dey ur headπŸ‘πŸ‘

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Amanda Sibi's avatar

Thank yo so so much

This comment just melted my heart

I am truly grateful

Yes, if only we can sit and and think before we respond sometimes

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Sunita's avatar

It’s actually an amazing one. We really should take chill pills regularly and let some things slide. Nice one Sibi

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Amanda Sibi's avatar

Exactly, we should

Thank you very much

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Friday's avatar

God... Sibi you did a perfect job here. Like reading this, just made me understood few things perfectly. Thanks all the way.

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Amanda Sibi's avatar

Wow

I am truly glad

Thank you so much

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Uchenna Jane's avatar

I love the story you shared, I have a few of mine too but then it's not that deep. For us overthinkers it usually gets deep and hurt us for days or months in many ways than one.

I am beautiful whether acne or not!!!

I am beautiful with my athletic, not do girly body!!!

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Amanda Sibi's avatar

It is the last line for me

I am happy you loved this piece

In the end, when we seek validations from people, we tend to get easily offended

And yes, you are!

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Chinua's avatar

You captivated me from the very first line down to the last. Really nice write up

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Amanda Sibi's avatar

Wow

Thank you very much

Glad you enjoyed it

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Uju claire's avatar

Wooow love conquers it all and

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Amanda Sibi's avatar

Yes it surely does

Thank you very much

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Miriam's avatar

Exactly

Infact not everything one hears needs a respons...

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Miriam's avatar

Exactly!!!

Infact not everything one hears needs a response...

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Olivia's avatar

Omg I really love this article. You hit the right points, and these are issues we encounter in our everyday lives. I particularly love the line where you said 'life will throw situations that might make you go crazy ', but will you? That's a good one right there. Kudos Amanda πŸ‘ πŸ‘

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